Do you want friends with benefits? Do you want to be one of those sexy friends? How can you approach South African dating and other adult online dating sites to find someone that will fit this need in your life? There are some potential hazards of a friends with benefits relationship. However, if you know how to handle the terrain, you are more likely to have some great relationships.
To start with it’s important to understand what a sexy friend is. This is not somebody that you start having sex with in the hopes that they will eventually fall in love with you and want to have children. A sexy friends with benefits relationship is about having a casual sex relationship with somebody who is already, or can be, a friend too.
And, just like your other friends, they will have their own interests, their own lives, and their own dates which will include people that are not you. Just as you would not expect your friend to call you the day after you have breakfast together, the traditional dating rules of a call after a sex date are out. You should not expect, or be expected, to call out of courtesy after rolling around in the sheets.
The whole idea behind a sexy friend is that the emotional attachment is not there. You are attached by a mutual desire for a physical relationship, but also connected by the understanding that the emotional relationship of a traditional date is not an expectation.
Sexy friends are respectful of each other. Just as you are respectful of your other friends. You don’t take advantage of one another in a negative way. But, since you are friends, you can easily and openly communicate about what you want sexually. This is where the benefits part comes in.
The best no strings attached relationships occur between two adult dating partners that are confident and secure. Most often they desire the physical connection with another person but they also understand that they are not ready for a commitment. This is a very honest way to approach the relationship. If the other person agrees with the arrangement then there is a smaller chance of anybody getting hurt.
At some point sexy friends may decide to end the arrangement, move on with another person that they want to commit to, or simply move on. This can all be accomplished much easier when you are very clear and open about your intentions. If you ever believe that you or your friend with benefits is getting too serious, then you need to talk honestly about it and end the attachment if necessary. This can be difficult when the sex is really, really good. But, remember that it was probably as good as it was because you eliminated the traditional courtship protocol.
If you are ready for a sexy friend, then you can search for like minded people in your South African dating area online. Some sites allow you to take a free peek. Who knows, your best sexy friend with benefits could be someone you pass on the street each day but just haven’t met yet. Are you ready to meet them now?
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