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Adult Online Dating: Save Yourself From Mediocre Sex

April 8th, 2012 by Lisa
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Any sex is good sex, right? Well, if you’ve ever had mediocre sex then you know that this statement is just not true! Mediocre sex is, well, mediocre. It’s like peering through the glass counter at a bakery, eyeballing what looks like a moist, delicious, orgasmic chocolate cake only to discover when you bite into it the taste is bland and stale. Bad chocolate is just bad chocolate. And should be a crime. Adult online dating can save you from settling for mediocre sex in your life. Although, it can’t save you from bad chocolate unless your adult playmate is a master baker. Do you want to know how to fully embrace adult online dating?

First, let’s talk about lust. That carnal playground of flesh and chemistry all rolled up in a set of tangled sheets. You literally feast your eyes on your partner, and your mouth soon follows. This isn’t about perfection. This is about physical attraction, bumping your head on the headboard, falling off the bed, willingly experimenting with different positions, laughing, giggling, and releasing all tension and inhibitions.

That’s what can happen when you casually hook up with someone on an adult online dating site.

The reason it can happen is that you start anonymously online exploring your options, practicing your sex talk, before you even meet the person face to face. You build anticipation.

While you’re doing this, you are sort of admitting to yourself what you really desire. Great sex. And because you are among adults that are looking for the same thing, your inhibitions fade. The fear that you will be rejected or seen as something odd disappears.

As a result, something inside of you is let free and you are able to enjoy and explore sexual pleasures and sexual adventures. This freedom allows you to find out what you like, what you don’t like, and what you are capable of having in a sexual relationship.

Since you may or may not see that person again, you don’t have to hold back. Use this as an opportunity to explore your own body. But also use this to explore your partner’s body and build your confidence that you can give as must sexual pleasure as you receive.

Once you have hot, steamy, toe curling sex; mediocre sex will never, ever be an option.

And, you will know how to create it if you are ever at a point when you want a permanent relationship.

Don’t worry. That doesn’t mean that an eventual permanent lover will have to be perfect. But it does mean that they must be willing and eager to learn how to be sexually compatible for you. If all they like is one position, and are not willing to explore beyond that, you have to let them go if you know you crave more from a sexual relationship.

Exploring adult online dating will allow you to experience, experiment, and sort through what you want sexually from another person. The pressure of “I’ve got to get it exactly right with this person or he/she will dump me…” is off the table. A casual sex encounter is just that, casual. At the onset you both understand that a permanent relationship is not required or desired. The only desire is great sex…and maybe some great chocolate too.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to

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Safe Sex And Adult Online Dating: What’s The Connection?

April 5th, 2012 by Lisa
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What comes to mind when you hear the term “safe sex”? Is it the image of a Trojan package filled with colorful condoms? Is it a theory of lack of penetration during the act of sex? While those things certainly have a spot in the safe sex world, the type of safety that I’m referring to with adult online dating has a little different spin. The adult dating sites that openly offer the opportunities for casual sex, no strings attached, and one night stand affairs offer a different kind of safe sex opportunity. Safe sex in this new domain, in
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Will A One Night Stand Give You A Heart Attack?

March 10th, 2012 by Lisa
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A recent study reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association suggests that occasional sex can cause a heart attack. Really? Well, that’s how some people are interpreting the data, drawing a connecting line between one night stands, casual sex and the risk of heart attack. That’s a short line, but not necessarily one that you want to get into. The report states that occasional sexual activity is more likely to cause a heart attack than if sex were a normal, regular activity. The “science” behind it is that increased activity of the heart when it’s not accustomed to
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How To Become An Irresistible Sexy Date

March 2nd, 2012 by Lisa
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Are you ready to finally uncover the secrets of how to become an irresistible sexy date? It has little to do with looks, or how much you weigh, or how big your muscles are. In fact, since many adult sex dates now start online, the playing field has been leveled. You can easily become irresistible to men and women across the South African landscape before you ever meet face to face. Want to know the secret? The first step is to lower your expectations. Now by this, I don’t mean lower your standards. I simply mean that to be an
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The Best South African Sexy Dates

March 1st, 2012 by Lisa
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What can you do with your sexy date in South Africa to really make the encounter pleasurable and memorable for both of you? Many couples that hook up found each other through an online dating site. This is a great way to meet people in your neighborhood, or to discover someone living in South Africa that you can get it on with while you visit the country on business or pleasure. Although, with an online hookup all the business can be pleasure when you have a sexy date to share it with. To really plan a great sexy date then
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