Many people believe they only need to master a few tips on sex, a few exotic positions, in order to grab the attention of a potential partner for some casual sex. While this is partially true it’s certainly not the whole picture of what makes sex so great. Sure, you have the chemistry and thrill of a new encounter, but sadly if you concentrate solely on the act of sex then you are missing the real jewel of lovemaking.
What I’m referring to here is the art of seduction. This goes hand in hand with your skills on sex. Casanova had it and you can too whether you are a man or a woman. Believe it or not, if your intention is to jump on every man or woman you see and hump like rabbits then the experience will end up feeling very empty and unfulfilling…eventually. The thrill of the chase is still alive and very real in the world of dating. This is true for traditional dating as well as for the adult online dating scene.
And here is a dirty little secret: If you master the skills of seduction then any shortcomings on sex will be easily overlooked by your partner. They will be swimming so deeply in your aura of persuasion and passion that any sex encounter will be enhanced exponentially.
We all love to play games and seduction has to be the greatest game ever invented. While seduction by the snake is accused of causing the downfall of man as Adam and Eve were kicked out of Eden I would suggest that we humans are resilient people. We happily use these tips on sex and seduction to bring some paradise to our everyday worlds:
Confidence is sexy.It has been said that whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right. So why not think you can get it on with that temptress that you’ve got your eyes on. Open up the conversation and just stop worrying. If you are talking face to face, let your eyes venture to her mouth as she speaks. Lick your own lips as you think about kissing her then look back into her eyes.
Anticipation is hot. Even if you are both agreeable to just a casual encounter, an illicit affair or a no strings attached relationship, building up anticipation for your on sex adventure builds up the steam. As you get ready to meet, take the time to groom and dress for sex. And, I don’t just mean that you should be sure to bring the condoms. You need to smell good, preferably be smooth, and wear clothing that you can’t wait to have ripped off of your body.
It’s all about them. Remember this and you will soon discover how quickly your on sex adventure will become more about you. Most people love to give more than they get so turn on the charm meter and watch how the arrow moves more heavily in your direction. Blindfold your partner and feed them food such as strawberries, honey, chocolate, or avocado and don’t be afraid to lick their lips, chin, or nipple if a little morsel happens to drop.
Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to http://www.RandyRabbits.com/Blog and get your free report.