Probably the greatest myth on sex ever spoken is the three date rule. This myth states that you have to take a woman out three times before you can have sex with her. Three times! Three dinners, three forced conversations with a bunch of small talk, when all the two of you really want to do is have sex? Really?

Like all archaic principles this may have been true at some time in the past, and it may continue to be true today for those looking for true love and a soul mate on some online dating sites. But there is a whole other group of adults, one that is growing by leaps and bounds, that simply wants to become involved with an adult online dating site whose focus is on fun, on sex, and everything that is possible outside of conventional rules. No dinners required!

Truth be told, when you both have the same motivations on sex and what your encounter is about then it should only take about six hours to have sex. And for those with a tremendous amount of stamina, that encounter could even last six hours!

Think about it this way. If you wanted to buy a car, would you go to the showroom floor several times during the week just to visit the car and the salesperson? Probably not. The car is there to be sold. You are interested in buying. After about 6 hours of negotiation, the business equivalent of seduction, the deal is closed and you drive off in your shiny new toy.

In the world of adult online dating you may spend some time chatting up with a potential partner that has the same desires on sex that you do. This could be a casual encounter, a UK quickie, or a no strings attached relationship. The result could be that you both agree to a face to face meeting and discover if you are ready to get it on in real life.

Sometimes people meet in this manner and do in fact find their soul mate. However, coming out of the gate that is not the goal. In fact, because of the new rules of online dating you may just discover that a lot of the emotional baggage that can come with dating is removed before it can even accumulate. This opens you up to some exciting possibilities on sex and your future.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to http://www.RandyRabbits.com/Blog/ and get your free report.