Are you as sexy as you want to be? Do you feel as sexy as you deserve? Or are you suppressing your sexuality in favor of society’s norms for what is good and proper. If you find that you fall short on the sex-o-meter then it’s time to take control of your sexual life. If you wonder what all the excitement is about with friends with benefits and casual sex encounters, then it’s time to explore the bad girl side of your personality. If you wonder what’s so great about being a bad girl, then you definitely need to read this.
Think about this: on average guys have a sexual thought every 45-60 seconds. These are respectable businessmen, seasoned athletes, students at the top of their class, nice normal looking guys. Yet, they think about sex constantly and are not once referred to as “loose”, a “tart”, or a “slut”. Why should they have all the fun?
Well, that’s about to change as we discuss steps for you to take to increase your sexuality.
First off, remember that sexy is as sexy does. If you don’t feel sexy from the inside out then you are not going to be able to pull it off. So the first step for increasing your sexuality is to realize that it is perfectly acceptable for a woman to be thinking about sex all of the time.
For example, turn that long, boring subway ride in the morning into an opportunity to scope out all the luscious buns that are standing at eye level all around you. And, I’m not talking about sweet sticky type buns. I’m talking about hunky male eye candy buns that you can imagine walking naked toward your bathroom door after you have had a night of casual toe curling sex.
Next, now that you are thinking sex, your wardrobe needs to reflect your sexuality. Start in your drawers with your drawers. I’m talking about those “unmentionables”, your panties, your bras, and your slips. If your mother would approve of them, or if they are looking a little shabby, toss them out. Get panties that look and feel sexy against your skin. What this does is allow you to secretly feel sexy all throughout your day, even if you are just standing in line at the bank or shopping the grocery aisles for toothpaste.
Finally, take a look at your outerwear. If you don’t feel sexy when you have it on, then toss it out. Now before you object because you have a “respectable” job or are a mother of three just stop. You deserve to fully embrace the power that comes with your sexuality. By doing this, everyone around you will stand up and take notice. And, getting noticed means that you will be taken seriously. You may need to take this step a little slowly. Start by shopping in a store that you normally don’t shop. Try on the clothes that make your feel sexy, not what makes sense, and if you’re ready buy it. Make a point to wear that new outfit in public – no fair hiding it in the closet!
As a bonus step, it’s time to test your new sexual prowess by flirting. Yes, real life fun and spontaneous flirting. If you’re not ready to try this in person, then try an adult online dating site where you can meet other sexual beings and flirt in a non-threatening manner. Put on those sexy panties, push-up bra, and new sexy clothes and jump online. This may lead to a casual encounter where you can jump some bones, or you may just get comfortable with your new sexual being. Where you take it is up to you.
Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com
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