Have you ever fixed a romantic, candlelit, gourmet dinner for your guy only to have him grab a TV tray, plop down in front of a football game, and zone out on the play by play rather than appreciate the meal you spent hours cooking? Feels pretty lousy, right? Well, this is kind of what your man feels like when you hit the sheets with the enthusiasm of watching grass grow. For a better sex life take a few tips from the porn stars and you can have your man literally eating that gourmet meal out of your hands – sports season be damned!

Sex on TV can’t hurt you, unless you fall off.

Anonymous

Love Thyself

Tip 1 – Guys like sex

It’s a priority for him so make it a priority for you. The dishes can wait unless you are washing them in nothing but your latex gloves! Take the initiative and set up opportunities to have sex, or get him thinking about sex…with you, not the porn star on television. Porn stars have no problem voicing, or moaning, their enthusiasm. Don’t make your guy feel like he is something on your “to-do” list. Why not wake him up in the morning with a below-the-belt kiss, just to start the day off right. That’s better than any bowl of Wheaties!

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Tip 2 – It’s OK for you to be satisfied too

Not feeling the thunder between the sheets? Then speak up! Don’t be afraid that you will hurt his feelings. Just tell him how much you love being with him. Let him know when something feels good. Then let him know with more enthusiasm when something feels really good! But don’t nag and critique. The porn star isn’t pointing out what’s wrong. She is controlling the show and expresses what feels good. It’s fine to take the initiative and explore new things with your partner.

During sex I fantasize that I’m someone else.

Richard Lewis

Tip 3 – Love Thyself

Quit putting off taking care of yourself. Do you think the porn stars just roll out of bed with perfectly processed hair and manicured nails to cat scratch their man’s backs? Not a chance. You don’t need to pour on the bleach, just take the time to do things for yourself that make you feel sensual. Paint your toenails, pluck your eyebrows, get a new outfit, go for a walk, take up yoga, and eat foods that make you feel good. Taking the time to care for yourself and your appearance tells your man that you value yourself, and you value him. That’s sexy.

Tip 4 – Get dolled up

This is fun for you, but it also shows your guy he’s worth the effort. Sure, your favorite t-shirt and a pony tail are way more comfortable than scratchy lingerie, but take the time to get ready for a “date” with your man – even if you’ve been married several years. Call him at work and “invite” him over for dinner; let him know what’s on the menu, and then get dressed up, shave those legs, and get ready to sizzle and shine.

Go for it – Lights, Camera, Action…

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