There is an art to pleasurable sex for women. Luckily it’s a paint-by-numbers art that can be learned. You may think you have all the moves down, but consider some very slight variations of these five tried and tested, female approved, positions.

Choose Your Orgasm

Turn the missionary position from ordinary to extraordinary with just a little twist and shout. This position is intimate since you are face to face with your partner and can continue to kiss, look into one another’s eyes, and have body contact at all times. Try this slight change. Rather than thrusting in and out, add a little swivel to your entry. This will give your lady a different sensation and can leave her begging for more.

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Slight Variations

A slight variation of the missionary position gives a tantalizing experience without the actual entry. This position could be used when full intercourse [entry] is not desired but orgasm is. Lie in the missionary position; however, the man should place himself about two to four inches forward so the base of the penis rubs against her clitoris. Your movement should be up and down, providing friction to the clitoris. Overstimulation of the clitoris can be uncomfortable for some women so be attentive and you will know at what pace to move.

Most men prefer the visual pleasure they get from going doggy style. You may need to start with slow, shallow thrusts and build up to stronger and deeper thrusts as she becomes comfortable. The woman will have a better chance at hitting her G-spot, the area inside and “north” of the clitoris. You may make her howl by applying firm, well-placed strokes along her G-spot for an orgasm she will remember.

Women On Top

A woman may have a tough time climbing to the top in the corporate world, but a woman on top in the bedroom is a true delight. For the man, again there is something to look at. Hands are free to roam the terrain. On top, the woman can decide which type of orgasm she wants – a clitoral orgasm or a G-spot orgasm. By leaning back, she can reach the G-spot; by leaning forward and arching her back, the clitoris is stimulated. Rather than an up and down motion, try a lateral back and forth motion. In this position, the man can lay one hand flat against her lower abdomen and apply slight pressure. This heats up a pleasurable erogenous zone.

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Don’t hesitate to take a quickie in the kitchen. Women like intimacy, but also enjoy hot, spontaneous sex every now and then. Lift her up on the countertop and position yourself between her legs. She will scoot to the edge of the counter while your penis thrusts at a slight upward angle. This is perfect for reaching her G-spot; however, the stimulation for you makes it hard to control your orgasm. Don’t worry too much, the novelty of hot sex outside of the bedroom will have her part way to her orgasm before you even get her panties off!

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