Once you light the flame of passion, you have to make the effort to keep it burning. Keep your routines out of the bedroom and keep the flame hot as you explore these 5 tips for better sex tonight!

Better Sex Tonight

Stimulate…her mind!

Men are visual; women are oral. But both sexes can be stimulated using the art of oral communication. For women, talking provides a deeper connection. For men, what you discuss, and how you describe things can trigger mental images that will get his engines running long before the bra hits the floor. Turn off all the distractions: TV, computer and phones, and turn on the pillow talk for fifteen minutes. Remember that hot vacation night…or that time in the…when that person almost walked in? Remember how much fun you had when the two of you…. Fill in the blanks and be ready to arouse those feelings.

For women, the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.

Isabel Allende

Thumb your way to Paradise

When he’s home, you can ask him to take out the trash; but when he’s at work, why not sext him a trashy message? Get him smiling and thinking about you when he’s confined to a cubicle or sitting in yet another boring corporate meeting. You can be playful and fun without disturbing your partner with a telephone call. I’m pretty sure that this is why texting was invented in the first place!

Yabba Dabba Doo…Cartoon Porn

If you have kids, you know how useful a bowl of sugary cereal and an animated movie can be when you and your spouse want to sneak away for a few minutes. Why not bring your own colourful entertainment into the bedroom with a bit of animated porn. This is toned down a bit from the real stuff but can provide just the level of stimulation your brain needs to shut out the serious adult stuff and be a little playful. How about the sexual encounters of a military-created android that has escaped the lab? Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?

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Caution: Slippery When Wet

Water is sexy. For some people, the sound of rain puts them into a romantic mood; slipping into a bathtub surrounded with candles helps you relax. Add some soap and your partner and you are ready to explore all the ways you can come clean with your passion. Don’t have a bathtub? Don’t worry; a shower will do just fine. Just be careful as you create your own steam.

Create your own light show

Leave the harsh lighting to the interrogation or operating rooms. Create a romantic atmosphere with softer lighting. Candles turn your everyday bedroom into a haven. The flickering flame casts sensual silhouettes across the walls, softening any lumps and bumps you may worry about. Add some massage oil, wine, and soft music and take the time to unwind through the art of touch as all the senses are stimulated.

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