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Science Supports The Need For Casual Sex

January 20th, 2012 by Lisa
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Casual sex movies make it all seem so easy. Two people meet up at a bar, share a quick drink, and then are seen passionately bouncing off hallway walls as they try to get each other’s clothes off. But is it really all so simple? And if it is, then why aren’t all bar room hallways bursting at the seams with horny hookups? The answer is…they’re not and the science behind attraction and a woman’s desire for casual sex gives a little insight into why.

In several studies, the original one conducted in 1989 and a follow-up one conducted more recently, both men and women were asked if they would have casual sex with a platonic friend – a friends with benefits arrangement – or if they would have casual sex with a complete stranger. In both studies it showed that men were more likely to agree to a quickie than their female counterpart. So if you are a man and want to get a more favorable response to the question, “Will you go to bed with me?” there are few basic things that you need to understand about the women who are most likely to say yes.

Whether you meet a potential partner through an adult online dating site, through a friend, or in a pub, the basics of getting that person to agree to a one night stand or no strings attached relationship include a little flirting. Yes, even with casual sex you need a little flirting.

Science has suggested two theories explaining what women look for. The first theory reaches back to our caveman roots and the evolutionary reasons for having sex – survival of the species. In this explanation the woman needs to be choosy about their hook up mate since they expect them to stick around to help change diapers and buy formula. They want a man they can depend on.

The second theory is one that we can better get our minds around when talking about casual sex and that is the Pleasure Theory. We are all hardwired to pursue pleasure. This is the type of wiring that you guys need to stand up and take notice of. Yes, woman will be more likely to say yes to a casual relationship when they perceive that they are going to get a little pleasure from it…or more likely, a lot of pleasure. Women want to orgasm and they will be more willing to give it a shot with a guy (or girl) that is likely to provide it.

So let’s put the two theories together and create a better mousetrap. Guys, if you want casual sex then you need to convince a woman that they can depend on you to give them an orgasm!

How is this done? Well, to discover that you may just want to follow me and get some advice on some good old fashioned flirting and seduction. That is something that never goes out of style no matter if it’s casual sex or true love sex that you are after.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to http://www.RandyRabbits.com

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How Can You Make Casual Sex Better?

October 15th, 2011 by Lisa
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Casual sex shouldn’t mean sloppy sex. To get the most out of a casual dating relationship you still need to bring your “A” game to the playing field.

How can you make casual sex better?

How can you make casual sex better?

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How To Keep Casual Sex Casual

How To Keep Casual Sex Casual

How To Keep Casual Sex Casual

Casual sex begins in much the same manner for everybody. They just have a need for some hot, no strings attached sex. You just want to satisfy that inner, animal instinct. That craving that comes from seeing something, and wanting to devour and enjoy every bit of it….but just for a little while. You just want a little taste, but you don’t want to invest in a long term relationship.

But even having a friend with benefits runs the risk of getting messy unless you follow a few tried and true guidelines to keep it fun and keep it casual. You have to have a strategy to keep your emotions in check:

Find someone who annoys you – just a little. If you start sex dating with someone who you perceive as “perfect” in every way, then you may slip into a mode that heads down a relationship path. If this is not what you want, then find someone who gets under your skin – someone who annoys you – someone that you would dread waking up to every morning for the rest of your life. It’s much easier to keep it casual with someone that you cannot see yourself in a serious relationship with.

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Top Way to Find Women Seeking Casual Fun

News Flash – Not all women are looking for a long term relationship. Just take a look at some of the powerful, single women in the media and entertainment world and you will notice that they don’t seem to be yearning for a man to ‘save them’. They are building their own lifeboat; however, that doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t enjoy a mate to have a little fun with. Just like their male counterparts, many women are seeking casual fun in a no strings attached relationship.

Top Way to Find Women Seeking Casual Fun

Top Way to Find Women Seeking Casual Fun

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