How To Keep Casual Sex Casual
Casual sex begins in much the same way for everyone. You just want to satisfy that inner, animal instinct. That craving that comes from seeing something, and wanting to devour and enjoy every bit of it….but just for a little while. You just want a little taste, but you don’t want to invest in a long term relationship.
Friend with benefits runs the risk of getting messy unless you follow a few tried and tested guidelines to keep it fun and keep it casual. You have to have that strategy to keep your emotions in check:
Find someone that you’re not fully compatible with. If you start seeing someone who you perceive as “perfect” in every way, you may want to slide into a relationship. If this is not what you want, then find a partner who is sexy and fun but not someone you can see spending the rest of your life with.
Making it crystal clear
Make it very clear that all you are after is casual sex and nothing more. There is no need to stay overnight, send flowers, or meet the parents if it’s all about getting laid. If you get a sense that the other person is starting to get attached, address is immediately. Don’t let a flicker of hope turn into a flame that can’t be extinguished.
Make it very clear to yourself that it’s just casual. Our minds can be very clever by tricking us into believing that what feels good to the body is something more than what it is. Remind yourself before and after every encounter that this is only about chemistry, passion, and lust. Nothing more.
Make it crazy, kinky, and exploratory. In a fun way, this can be like a science experiment. See what feels good, what’s fun. It’s harder to imagine having a serious relationship with someone who is just a kinky lab partner!
Even casual sex requires that your treated in respectfully – even if you are being “naughty”. If your playmate starts to do things that take you for granted, like showing up without calling, or showing up late, then you can put your foot down and move on.
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When it’s time to end the relationship, then end it clean. Just as you started with a clear goal in mind, end it with that same sense of honesty. Don’t leave the impression that you will be back for more if that’s not your intention.
Following these few simple guidelines could open up a whole new world of casual encounters with no string attached. Every game has a set of rules. Getting laid is no different.
Sexual Astrology Dating
It’s easy to get mixed signals when you are dating. Move too slowly, and a potential sexual partner could lose interest or mistake your lack of action for lack of interest. Move too quickly and you could scare off the opportunity for a perfect relationship filled with the level intimacy that you crave. Using sexual astrology as a guide, you can find your emotional and sexual match. [Tweet “Using sexual astrology as a guide, you can find your emotional and sexual match.”] Aries: March 21-April 19 Tends to be spontaneous sexually and one thing can easily lead to another. Taurus:
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Sex By Star Sign. How Sexy Are You?
What are you really looking for…true love, a night of passion, or a no strings attached relationship? You may be able to take a short cut to your desired goal by knowing the best astrological match for your sexual desires and also see where you fit in. Sex by Star Sign. Aries: March 21 – April 19 This is a take-charge kind of lover that loves to experiment. The initiator sign likes to pursue and be pursued. Make sure that you are ready to keep up sexually. The Ram has the biggest appetite for sex. Taurus: April 20 – May
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Has Porn Killed Good Sex?
Has Porn Killed Good Sex?
According to a Fox News article, the porn industry has created a generation of less-hot men to the extent that no amount of Viagra can help. The illusion that a man only needs to get an erection for superior sexual performance, has resulted in men who just don’t seem to try too hard to please their women. Or worse, they mimic what they see on their screens and believe that they are trying.
But if they fall for the illusion of porn as being the real thing, then they will remain clueless as to why their women resort to faking it and then moving on. Men need to remember that when they watch porn, they should consider it as a way to relieve stress, a way to step out of their real life for a few hours and enjoy some mindless entertainment.
But if they fall for the illusion of porn as being the real thing…
G-Spot Pleasure – Solved
G-Spot Pleasure
Just when you thought you had the female orgasm all figured out, you discover that there is more than one way to give her pleasure. Maybe it’s because women have to bear the burden of childbirth that they are given more than one way to have an orgasm, with more than one point of pleasure to enjoy it. Most people are familiar with a clitoral orgasm, and the mystery of the elusive G-spot has remained that…a mystery. Now, finally, there is some better information on G-spot stimulation…
Since the original research in 1940 and the bestselling book The G-spot there have been various definitions of what it is, where it is located, and if, in fact every woman has a G-spot. Newer research is a little bit clearer. While everyone does have this sexual hot spot, the amount of pleasure that a woman gets from stimulating this area of her body varies. This explains why some women love their G-spot, and others prefer an orgasm of the clitoris.
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