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Casual sex begins in much the same way\u00a0for everyone. You just want to satisfy that inner, animal instinct. That craving that comes from seeing something, and wanting to devour and enjoy every bit of it\u2026.but just for a little while. You just want a little taste, but you don\u2019t want to invest in a long term relationship.<\/p>\n
Friend with benefits runs the risk of getting messy unless you follow a few tried and tested\u00a0guidelines to keep it fun and keep it casual. You have to have that\u00a0strategy to keep your emotions in check:<\/p>\n
Find someone that you\u2019re not fully compatible with. If you start seeing\u00a0someone who you perceive as \u201cperfect\u201d in every way, you may want to slide into a relationship. If this is not what you want, then find a partner who is sexy and fun but not someone you can see spending the rest of your life with.<\/p>\n
Make it very clear that all you are after is casual sex\u00a0and\u00a0nothing more. There is no need to stay overnight, send flowers, or meet the parents if it\u2019s all about getting laid. If you get a sense that the other person is starting to get attached, address is immediately. Don\u2019t let a\u00a0flicker of hope turn into a flame that can’t\u00a0be extinguished.<\/p>\n
Make it very clear to yourself that it\u2019s just casual. Our minds can be very clever by tricking us into believing that what feels good to the body is something more than what it is. Remind yourself before and after every encounter that this is only about chemistry, passion, and lust. Nothing more.<\/p>\n
Make it crazy, kinky, and exploratory. In a fun way, this can be like a science experiment. See what feels good, what\u2019s fun. It\u2019s harder to imagine having a serious relationship with someone who is just a kinky lab partner!<\/p>\n
Even casual sex requires that your treated in respectfully \u2013 even if you are being \u201cnaughty\u201d. If your playmate starts to do things that take you for granted, like showing up without calling, or showing up late, then you can\u00a0put your foot down and move on.<\/p>\n
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When it\u2019s time to end the relationship, then end it clean. Just as you started with a clear goal in mind, end it with that same sense of honesty. Don\u2019t leave the impression that you will be back for more if that\u2019s not your intention.<\/p>\n
Following these few simple guidelines could open up a whole new world of casual\u00a0encounters with no string attached. Every game has a set of rules. Getting laid is no different.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\n
<\/p>\nHow To Keep Casual Sex Casual<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
Casual sex<\/b> begins in much the same manner for everybody. They just have a need for some hot, no strings attached sex. You just want to satisfy that inner, animal instinct. That craving that comes from seeing something, and wanting to devour and enjoy every bit of it\u2026.but just for a little while. You just want a little taste, but you don\u2019t want to invest in a long term relationship.<\/p>\n
But even having a friend with benefits runs the risk of getting messy unless you follow a few tried and true guidelines to keep it fun and keep it casual. You have to have a strategy to keep your emotions in check:<\/p>\n
Find someone who annoys you \u2013 just a little. If you start sex dating with someone who you perceive as \u201cperfect\u201d in every way, then you may slip into a mode that heads down a relationship path. If this is not what you want, then find someone who gets under your skin \u2013 someone who annoys you \u2013 someone that you would dread waking up to every morning for the rest of your life. It\u2019s much easier to keep it casual with someone that you cannot see yourself in a serious relationship with.<\/p>\n