How do you want your sex? I mean, do you want it slow and romantic, or quick and dirty? I ask my sex dates this question all the time, because I know how I want it.
I like the kind of sex that curls your toes, the kind that is fast and furious, maybe a bit kinky – I don’t mind using my mouth for all sorts of things. And I’ve had some of the best orgasms of my life when the whole thing is over in 10 minutes, and in a place where me and my guy are, shall we say, exposed. But I also like to have it both ways (or even all three ways…just kidding!). I like to have fast sex and get the edge taken off, then have round 2 the complete opposite, slow and romantic, with lots of candles, music and foreplay. Then when we make love, we can take our time and enjoy the slow ride type of sex.
I know what men say – that there’s no such thing as bad sex. Well, I think they’re wrong. Bad sex can happen, and it’s not a matter of being the fast and slutty kind or the take-it-easy, slow-hand type. It happens when you get someone who is only interested in pleasing themselves. When I want to get laid, I want to come – more than once, usually. And to do that, I need a lover who knows what I like, and knows how to give it to me. Then I absolutely love to give it back in good measure, so to speak. I want to please him just the same as he has pleased me, and I’ll do just about anything to get him there.
Most of my friends say that they prefer sex that takes some time, with loads of foreplay, and a lot of cuddling afterwards. I can see that for act 2, but the first scene is better for me if it’s fast and dirty. Like I said, I know how I want sex, and I want it to be good for both of us. Get randy and try randyrabbits.com!
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