What do you do when you want sex and you want it now? There are times – about twice a week, as a matter of fact – when I have to have it, and I don’t mean tomorrow.
At this point in my life, I know myself and my body pretty well. After a couple of days without doing the deed, I start to get testy, and tend to snap at strangers when I might have flirted the day before, just for the fun of it. I do like to tease, but that’s another story. When I get that grumpy, itchy feeling, I know it’s time for a little hot sex. So how do I get what I need?
Well, there’s always the self-satisfying route. Sometimes there’s just no other way to go than getting out the vibrator (of course, I have a selection to choose from, so it takes some time to pick the right helper) and getting myself off. When I have to do this, I usually make a hot bath, light some candles to get myself in the mood, and do it slow and easy. The problem is, there’s nothing like the real, hot thing from a lover who knows what I want.
That’s when I used to make my way to the clubs – a couple of favorite spots were usually enough to find what I needed – and look over the competition. And believe me, there was competition for me – I am a sexy thing, if I do say so myself. So I generally had my pick of randy men to choose from. But times have changed, and the scene out there is not like it used to be. Oh, the memories that come back to me!
Anyway, I’ve found that when I really need hot, satisfying sex, I can go to my online dating service and find a willing, perfectly matched partner for the evening. They make it so easy to get sex when I need it, I don’t even have to use my helper as much as I used to do.