Tell the truth. When you and your friends get together to talk about great sex, are you the audience or the great storyteller envious casual sex stories? There are advantages to both sides of wild, no strings attached sexual encounters but very often you will get more pleasure from being the teller. You benefit from the physical stimulation rather than just the mental stimulation of a great casual sex story. When you are ready to become the story teller then why not try these sexual tips with your mate of the moment. You can give them an experience that will send them to the moan zone and also running off to their friends to share their great sexual encounter with you!
There are two completely opposite casual sex encounters that can result in toe curling memorable sex: slow and quick. Of course, if you combine them in the same encounter, that can be pretty amazing in and of itself but that’s not what I’m referring to here.
First, let’s talk about slow. This is about anticipation which is probably one of the greatest aphrodisiacs known to humans. It is just like setting out a luscious, moist chocolate cake for all to see and knowing that it cannot be devoured until the main meal is eaten, dishes washed, and kids tucked safely off into bed. (who does that anyhow?)
The beauty of adult online dating is that through your initial chats online, you already know that the person you are hooking up with is interested in a quickie and not a long term commitment. That’s the first obstacle for great casual sex, and with the right communication with the right person on the right type of dating site for you, it’s handled.
However, just because you both know you want to just get it on, doesn’t mean you can’t have a little fun by adding in some anticipation. You may meet the person in the flesh only once; however, you can build up to that encounter online over the matter of weeks. Plus, you can do this with several people at the same time so that by the time you are ready for the climax, you have everyone lined up!
What makes the slow tease of anticipation lead to great casual sex is that all those sexual inhibitions that may present themselves in real life are eliminated over the weeks of openly talking about what you want, what you like, and how you like it delivered! By the time you get it on, the casual sex seems so relaxed and well, casual, that you are able to let loose completely.
The second way to enjoy the kind of casual sex that will make your friends drool is when it comes on so fast that even a freight train couldn’t deter you from your goal. These are often those casual and quick sexual encounters with “forbidden” partners or ones that take occur in “forbidden” places.
For example, you’re at a formal dinner party with family and friends but still manage to duck into a bathroom, or the host’s master bedroom closet, to rip off some gorgeous guys pants and give him a blow job that still has him smiling. After the casual sex encounter, you compose yourself and re-join the party without a single person aware of what just happened. Neither of you will look at a fondue pot with weenies and sauce in quite the same manner ever again.
The other type is a quick hookup with a person that you wouldn’t or shouldn’t be with. This could be a friend’s ex-boyfriend, a co-worker, or maybe even your boss. It’s quick, it’s fast, it’s hot, and then it’s over only to live in memory as the “Oh my gosh I can’t believe I did that with him/her….but man was that incredible!” Live it, love it, and move on.
Building up anticipation or going at it quick both allow a casual sex encounter to ignite with heat and passion. This makes for great sex and great stories and a great way to remember why you were given a sexual appetite in the first place. What’s even better about having some great casual sex experiences is that once you enjoy that kind of passion you will be less likely to accept so-so sex when you find a permanent, long term relationship. Great sex makes everyone happy!
Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com