In eras past, the term ‘dating’ was not used. Instead, the process of taking a person of the opposite sex out for a social event was referred to as ‘courtship’. And when a woman was being courted, the intention of the male suitor was very clear…he was looking for a woman to cook, clean, and bear his children.
Whew! Good thing we don’t have to be all wrapped up in all that any longer. Now we can freely choose sex dating, friend dating, romance dating, casual dating, you name it.
In a recent poll, singles were asked what dating meant to them. You’ll be interested in the top five reasons that people date:
#1 – Love
#2 – Sex (slightly above Marriage)
#3 – Marriage
#4 – Romance
#5 – Friendship
Since sex dating is at the top of the charts it seems clear that a physical relationship is still pretty important. But does love come before or after the sex?
Jane Fonda recently told interviewers that the sex comes first, and apparently great sex, which eventually can lead to love and/or marriage.
But sex dating is important. It’s natural. It satisfies our primal needs. And, it’s fun!
Part of the fun comes from the fact that there is very little pressure involved in the process, if you approach it the right way. It’s like taking a thrill ride at an amusement park. You don’t plan on buying the park, or even committing to riding just that one roller coaster. You just jump on and enjoy the ride.
But even with sex dating, you may find that eventually you find a ride that you like more than all the others. When that occurs, it may be a little scary at first. Some people run to another amusement park in panic. But others dig back into history and may consider returning to the rules of courtship.
However, in our modern times, this woman may actually bring home the cash and YOU may end up doing the laundry. All is fair in love, marriage and sex dating!
Enjoy the ride!
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