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Make It All About Her With A Sensual Massage

For a woman, nothing could be better than to experience two things that she loves at the same time – sex and a massage. Sure, she would probably want to throw her other love, shopping, into the mix but that could get a little awkward. And since most men would prefer to skip the shopping, why not pick up a few pointers in the massage department and a learn some techniques that she’ll love.

Sensual Massage

Make It About Her With a Sensual Massage

Before we delve into the world of massage, let’s be sure that you are properly prepared for the journey. Just like going on a fishing trip, you wouldn’t want to leave without your tackle or bring along a rusty rod so get all your equipment clean and ready.

Top on the list – be sure you hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. You don’t want to injure your partner or leave her with an unexpected surprise; you want to give her memories, not an infection.

Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.

Mae West

The basic items that you need are some baby wipes, and massage oil or lotion that is safe for internal use. To add something special try some candles, flowers, soft music and a blindfold.

A sensual massage explores areas of her body that other masseuses don’t enter, literally. To get a feel for how your partner will respond to a sensual massage, take it slowly. You can start with the shoulders and back but then move to the erogenous zones. Your hands are not the only instruments that can be used. Include your tongue and mouth in the experience.

The vagina, nipples, and feet are spots that you are probably familiar with. Experiment on her wrists with a little sucking, her fingers, ears and the back of her neck. Softly caress the insides of her elbows and knees. The idea is to gently explore many parts of her body with the warmth of your hands and lubrication of the oil.

Since you don’t want to shock her, pour the oil onto your hands and rub them together to create a warm sensation before spreading the lotion onto her body. As she is relaxing into your touch massage her whole body including private areas. Explore her G-spot which is the soft spot inside and upward. Gently stroke this area and see how your partner responds. If she likes it, just follow her lead and bring her to an amazing climax.

As long as you concentrate on her pleasure, she will let you know by her movements, her own sensual dance, which parts of your touch bring her the most pleasure. The more you linger in certain departments, the more she will want to head to the express check-out lane.

 

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  1. Don’t go using some of the shop bought massage oils if you want to put them in intimate places, as they may sting or burn…make your own with different amounts of sweet almond oil, grape seed oil, sesame oil, sunflower oil or walnut oil…all natural too!

    Comment by Janet — January 10, 2011

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