Old science taught that men preferred younger women since they were genetically programmed to spread their sperm to as many potential women of childbearing years as possible to ensure their legacy. In modern times, although men still desire to unleash their sperm as often as possible, they are not necessarily looking for women to bear their children. What they do desire is to have great sexual encounters. More and more men are discovering that what older women know about sex can rock a young stud’s world.

The first benefit of having an older woman as a casual sex partner is that she knows what she’s doing. She’s no longer fumbling in the dark to figure out how to work all the equipment, yours or hers. She knows what to do and how to handle it. She knows about sex because she has spent a couple of decades mastering her craft.

Many men understand that an older woman has probably seen it all, or pretty close to it. She understands that sometimes it will take a guy a little bit longer to get an erection. She also understands that sometimes he just can’t wait and she knows about sex techniques that can keep the sexual pleasure and momentum going. And delay his orgasm for maximum benefits to both partners.

Older women also have sexual confidence. Especially when they have life experiences either through their own careers, hobbies, volunteer work or family which enhance who they are. They are comfortable in their own skin and that has allowed them to learn about sex and enjoy what they have learned. A younger model may have packaging that is wrapped up a little tighter, but an older woman knows how to untie the bow.

It’s no accident that men enjoy flicks like Mrs. Robinson or the fantasy of the MILF. These ain’t your mama’s mamas. These are women of style, class, and sexual ability. Very often these are women that take care of themselves physically better than their younger female counterparts.

They expect to feel good about their bodies and about sex. And, when necessary they will take charge in the bedroom to show you what turns them on. The lucky guy that hooks up with an older woman doesn’t have to do a lot of guesswork. And he will be adored in a manner that will boost his ego, his libido and his own sexual satisfaction. He has the opportunity to enjoy and learn about sex in a manner that could take years with a younger woman.

Confidence is always attractive. When a woman is confident about sex and about her sexuality she will rarely be at a loss for a male companion. While some women have this in their younger years, most guys will agree that an older woman can be the whole sexual, passionate package.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

Tell the truth. When you and your friends get together to talk about great sex, are you the audience or the great storyteller envious casual sex stories? There are advantages to both sides of wild, no strings attached sexual encounters but very often you will get more pleasure from being the teller. You benefit from the physical stimulation rather than just the mental stimulation of a great casual sex story. When you are ready to become the story teller then why not try these sexual tips with your mate of the moment. You can give them an experience that will send them to the moan zone and also running off to their friends to share their great sexual encounter with you!

There are two completely opposite casual sex encounters that can result in toe curling memorable sex: slow and quick. Of course, if you combine them in the same encounter, that can be pretty amazing in and of itself but that’s not what I’m referring to here.

First, let’s talk about slow. This is about anticipation which is probably one of the greatest aphrodisiacs known to humans. It is just like setting out a luscious, moist chocolate cake for all to see and knowing that it cannot be devoured until the main meal is eaten, dishes washed, and kids tucked safely off into bed. (who does that anyhow?)

The beauty of adult online dating is that through your initial chats online, you already know that the person you are hooking up with is interested in a quickie and not a long term commitment. That’s the first obstacle for great casual sex, and with the right communication with the right person on the right type of dating site for you, it’s handled.

However, just because you both know you want to just get it on, doesn’t mean you can’t have a little fun by adding in some anticipation. You may meet the person in the flesh only once; however, you can build up to that encounter online over the matter of weeks. Plus, you can do this with several people at the same time so that by the time you are ready for the climax, you have everyone lined up!

What makes the slow tease of anticipation lead to great casual sex is that all those sexual inhibitions that may present themselves in real life are eliminated over the weeks of openly talking about what you want, what you like, and how you like it delivered! By the time you get it on, the casual sex seems so relaxed and well, casual, that you are able to let loose completely.

The second way to enjoy the kind of casual sex that will make your friends drool is when it comes on so fast that even a freight train couldn’t deter you from your goal. These are often those casual and quick sexual encounters with “forbidden” partners or ones that take occur in “forbidden” places.

For example, you’re at a formal dinner party with family and friends but still manage to duck into a bathroom, or the host’s master bedroom closet, to rip off some gorgeous guys pants and give him a blow job that still has him smiling. After the casual sex encounter, you compose yourself and re-join the party without a single person aware of what just happened. Neither of you will look at a fondue pot with weenies and sauce in quite the same manner ever again.

The other type is a quick hookup with a person that you wouldn’t or shouldn’t be with. This could be a friend’s ex-boyfriend, a co-worker, or maybe even your boss. It’s quick, it’s fast, it’s hot, and then it’s over only to live in memory as the “Oh my gosh I can’t believe I did that with him/her….but man was that incredible!” Live it, love it, and move on.

Building up anticipation or going at it quick both allow a casual sex encounter to ignite with heat and passion. This makes for great sex and great stories and a great way to remember why you were given a sexual appetite in the first place. What’s even better about having some great casual sex experiences is that once you enjoy that kind of passion you will be less likely to accept so-so sex when you find a permanent, long term relationship. Great sex makes everyone happy!

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

If you’re mind is not focused on sex, then you may be missing out on some very important mental and physical benefits. I’m not referring to over stimulation to the point that you can’t hold down a job or any type of real friendships, that’s addictive and not healthy. I’m talking about confident adults that give freedom to their sexual thoughts rather than trying to suppress them as a result of societal norms. When you try to deny something that is natural then it only leads to frustration, stress, and possibly ill health.

Let’s talk first about the female orgasm. There are lots of reasons why a woman may not be able to climax during sex. Some of them are associated with a physical condition while others are a result of a psychological reason. No, I’m not saying that women that cannot orgasm are crazy. However, what may be happening is that their mind is getting in the way, not allowing the woman to focus on the pleasures of sex, and thus denying the physical body the joy of having great sex and great orgasms.

It’s okay to have sex. It’s okay to enjoy sex. And, it’s okay to learn tips, tricks and actual physical moves that will help you get the orgasm you deserve. Focus on sex and the things you need to do such as kegel exercises, working with your sex partner to find which positions work and stimulate you, and grabbing your personal massager or vibrator and doing a little self discovery. It’s perfectly healthy to touch yourself and find out what makes you tick, giggle, moan, and cry out in passion.

Don’t let the female heroines in those fiction romance novels have all the fun!

When you have a healthy mental attitude about sex and a healthy physical sexual life then you are more likely to have fewer bouts of illness. You have more energy, sexual energy as well as the energy to handle stress outside of the bedroom. You will get fewer colds and have fewer sick days. When you focus on sex that is satisfying then you allow your body a release of stress and tension. Stress is known to lower your immune system and cause illness.

So how much time should be spent on sex to be healthy? Well, that answer is different depending on who you talk with. But as they say, use it or lose it. You should be shooting for at least two sexual encounters a week. It doesn’t matter if they last just 10 minutes, just get them in. Statistics show that only 15% of couples have sex three times a week…no wonder staying single and in the game is so appealing!

Here’s the bottom line on sex. The more you think about it, the more you will do it, the more you will enjoy it, and the better physical health you will have. You will be able to enjoy more orgasms with less effort because your sex muscles, both the brain muscle and the physical muscles, are used often enough to remember what to do…give you “O” so much pleasure.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

Give a new spiritual meaning to Oh My God sex. Sexual instruction becomes useful for couples looking for satisfaction in their physical life. There is nothing wrong with the desire to explore orgasms with your sexual partner. In fact, a mind, body and soul connection can allow you to break through your sexual barriers and fully enjoy what your body is capable of. We are equipped for sex. We are wired for orgasms. Find out how to get them.

First let’s talk about being fit for sex and orgasms. This means your health and the shape you are in. Understand that your sex life will closely mirror how well you take care of yourself physically. If you don’t do a very good job of it, then you are likely not enjoying the kind of sex that you should be having – because you are not taking the initiative to take care of it.

Before you get all tied up in a ball, I’m not talking about weight, shape, dimples, or droops. You don’t have to be an Adonis to enjoy great sex. What you must have, however, is respect for your body. After all, if you don’t respect it then how can you expect anybody else to respect it?

Eat well. Get in a little exercise even if it’s just a jog or a walk. Demand of yourself to feel good in matters of health and you will be of the mindset to demand to feel good, and get your orgasms, in matters of sex.

The foods that you can consume to enhance your sexual pleasure include those containing zinc, magnesium, calcium, arginine, and vitamin C.

Next, let’s explore that spiritual side of sex. This is about a connection that will blow your mind because it goes beyond just the physical side of sex. It’s a connection, even if temporary, that allows you to choose to be a little vulnerable with your sex partner.

Let me emphasize the word “choose”. Also, understand that being vulnerable should never put you in danger. Good sex comes from a point of personal power, not power over someone else.

When you control the tempo of passion, not control the passion, allowing yourself to delay your orgasms, and allowing yourself to enjoy multiple orgasms, you can bring sex to a whole new level. Guys would do well to really pay attention to their female partner and learn how to read the signs of her level of desire.

Hot and flush, she’s ready to play; nipples hard, she’s ready for penetration; throat and lips dry, pick up the pace and thrust a little harder and a little deeper; things get slipper, keep going – she can handle it; thick secretions (hers, not his) and you have a happy camper…but don’t stop and don’t finish. This is when the guy should delay ejaculation, switch positions, and start to really have fun.

Sexual instruction is a guide, and each person is at a different level of physical and mental fitness when it comes to sex. Although guys have a difficult time, or must wait a bit, after ejaculation to be able to continue; a woman can orgasm over, and over, and over again with nary a breath in between. Use this knowledge to your advantage guys, and you will be a sought after lover. Don’t worry, your will get plenty of appreciation and pleasure in return.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

Any sex is good sex, right? Well, if you’ve ever had mediocre sex then you know that this statement is just not true! Mediocre sex is, well, mediocre. It’s like peering through the glass counter at a bakery, eyeballing what looks like a moist, delicious, orgasmic chocolate cake only to discover when you bite into it the taste is bland and stale. Bad chocolate is just bad chocolate. And should be a crime. Adult online dating can save you from settling for mediocre sex in your life. Although, it can’t save you from bad chocolate unless your adult playmate is a master baker. Do you want to know how to fully embrace adult online dating?

First, let’s talk about lust. That carnal playground of flesh and chemistry all rolled up in a set of tangled sheets. You literally feast your eyes on your partner, and your mouth soon follows. This isn’t about perfection. This is about physical attraction, bumping your head on the headboard, falling off the bed, willingly experimenting with different positions, laughing, giggling, and releasing all tension and inhibitions.

That’s what can happen when you casually hook up with someone on an adult online dating site.

The reason it can happen is that you start anonymously online exploring your options, practicing your sex talk, before you even meet the person face to face. You build anticipation.

While you’re doing this, you are sort of admitting to yourself what you really desire. Great sex. And because you are among adults that are looking for the same thing, your inhibitions fade. The fear that you will be rejected or seen as something odd disappears.

As a result, something inside of you is let free and you are able to enjoy and explore sexual pleasures and sexual adventures. This freedom allows you to find out what you like, what you don’t like, and what you are capable of having in a sexual relationship.

Since you may or may not see that person again, you don’t have to hold back. Use this as an opportunity to explore your own body. But also use this to explore your partner’s body and build your confidence that you can give as must sexual pleasure as you receive.

Once you have hot, steamy, toe curling sex; mediocre sex will never, ever be an option.

And, you will know how to create it if you are ever at a point when you want a permanent relationship.

Don’t worry. That doesn’t mean that an eventual permanent lover will have to be perfect. But it does mean that they must be willing and eager to learn how to be sexually compatible for you. If all they like is one position, and are not willing to explore beyond that, you have to let them go if you know you crave more from a sexual relationship.

Exploring adult online dating will allow you to experience, experiment, and sort through what you want sexually from another person. The pressure of “I’ve got to get it exactly right with this person or he/she will dump me…” is off the table. A casual sex encounter is just that, casual. At the onset you both understand that a permanent relationship is not required or desired. The only desire is great sex…and maybe some great chocolate too.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

What comes to mind when you hear the term “safe sex”? Is it the image of a Trojan package filled with colorful condoms? Is it a theory of lack of penetration during the act of sex? While those things certainly have a spot in the safe sex world, the type of safety that I’m referring to with adult online dating has a little different spin. The adult dating sites that openly offer the opportunities for casual sex, no strings attached, and one night stand affairs offer a different kind of safe sex opportunity.

Safe sex in this new domain, in this new age of sexual freedoms, is the ability to have sexual relationships with a “safe” man or woman. This is someone that you are in no danger of falling in love with, and they are in no danger of falling in love with you.

When you are honest about your reasons for adult online dating, especially on sites that do not promote the illusion that they are going to help you find your soul mate, then you can use dating opportunities in all the various fun, kinky, and sexy styles as a way to enhance your own self-growth on the way to finding a permanent or semi-permanent relationship.

You may be in a transitional stage of your life. Maybe you are a student concentrating on college studies and know that a commitment is not in the cards for you right now. Perhaps you are just starting out in the dating world and want to rack in some experiences so that you can figure out what you really want in a relationship, and what you don’t want. Maybe you are coming off of a bad divorce and need some time to lick your wounds and figure out what the heck happened. Or you could be recently widowed, in need of some physical sexual release, but are not emotionally ready for something permanent.

Whatever circumstances bring you to an adult online dating site, rest assured that you can find someone to play with while you figure things out for yourself.

This playmate, your safe sex partner, must be attractive to you and must be challenging enough to physically arouse you. If it’s a no strings attached arrangement then you both know at some level that while you enjoy each other sexually and maybe as friends, there are either major things missing from the other person for you or you are at a stage of life where you choose not to commit to a single person.

Engaging in safe sex, throw away sex, can be a source of reassurance, physical release, affection and sexual experience. This safe sex serves as a way to release some pressure so that your tank doesn’t explode. When played correctly, you will notice that because of your sexual release through casual sex play, you will feel less desperate to latch on to someone that you know in your gut is wrong for you.

After all, you’re getting your rocks off (or ovaries off, as the case may be) so there is not this panicked sense of urgency to find “the One”. You can think more clearly when you are not desperate.

By using casual sex or one night stands to build your power and confidence, safe sex will allow you to be more relaxed, giving you a confident perspective. When someone comes along that you think you want something more with, you’ll be ready to handle it.

Safe sex and adult online dating work hand in hand. Be safe with your health (yes, I have to remind you to use a condom here); but also engage in activity with a safe sex partner. Release yourself from undesired commitment blood-hounding and just enjoy the benefits of the beautiful body you have been given with all its working parts!

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com

Are you looking for a lifetime of passion? What if you knew that you could find the kind of lifetime passion you crave through an African dating site? Would you log on and see what’s out there? And what if you could have that lifetime passion even if you chose not to get involved in a committed relationship? It is possible to get the passion you want on the terms you desire whether that is through a commitment or with a casual sex encounter.

As you know, there are many adult online dating sites to choose from. So what, you may ask, is so special about an African Dating Site? Well, like a good piece of real estate it’s location, location, location.

Passion and exotic locations go hand in hand. That’s just human nature. What could be more exotic than exploring an African safari, or hiking through the ancient and wondrous Kruger National Park? If you’re not into the wilderness, then you can explore the wild nightlife and jazz clubs like Mama Africa to get your sexual juices flowing.

So how can you go about finding a lifetime of passion? Start with an African Dating Site and find a like-minded adult, or adults, to share in your adventurous yearning for exciting dates.

The place to begin on the African Dating Site is with the profile. Be straight about what you are looking for. If you want a serious commitment or just a roll in the sack with some no strings attached casual sex, be sure to communicate that in your profile.

For example: After walking the beautiful windswept beaches along the Garden Route I want to roll in the sand and roll in the sack with an adventurous playmate. We’ll keep it light, no strings attached. The only strings I’m interest in are the ones on a string bikini waiting to be untied…

If your form of passion comes from music, then find someone juicy and fun to share it with.

For example: Primal passion just waiting to be unleashed. If you love the Drum Café and would like to get it on by picking up a stick and taking control, then I’m your guy…

Can you see the pattern here?

Finding passion through your African Dating site means expressing what it is you are after. Don’t be shy. Know what you want and go for it. With all the sites, scenes, scents and sounds that engulf residents and visitors to South Africa, there is really no reason not to harness the sexual play that you want. Meet your potential dates in South Africa, or have the meeting set up in advance if you are travelling to the continent. There is no reason why you shouldn’t be able to embrace the enormous bulk of history and culture that defines South Africa with your very own African playmate.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.co.za

There is no better place upgrade your sex life from dulls-ville to daring then through the world of adult online dating. Think about it. This is your own fantasy playground where the sandbox is replaced by something on box springs and the toys get a lot more interesting. So what’s so special about online dating? Well, this is the place where you can find adults to be willing participants in some sexual instructions testing, trials, and homework.

Have you ever picked up a book on sexual health, sexual positions, how to give great oral sex or popped in your favorite porn? These are great resources to go to for some sexual instructions. But then comes the rub. Who can you practice with?

Some of the stuff may make you curious and horny, but then what also follows is a little bit of nervousness and insecurity. Can you pull it off, feeling all sexy and full of seduction?

Well guess what? You are never going to know until you give it a try. And there is no better way to practice than with a partner who has equal ambitions from an adult online dating site. If it goes badly, then just change your profile name and try again!

Just kidding about that. Have fun, release your inhibitions, and then maybe try a few of these sexual instructions for a great orgasmic adventure.

The Proper way to strip tease: Yes, you can strip it off and get him down on his knees in just a matter of moments with the right moves. It’s a good idea to practice a bit with this one. The biggest challenge is often to get the panties off without tripping. Be sure to strip with attitude. Strut by placing one foot directly in front of the other. And then take each piece of clothing off slowly and teasingly.

Give great oral sex: Women like this as much as men do. In fact many women may be able to orgasm only through a tongue in groove. And guys, it may take as long as 20 minutes so be sure that you are in a comfortable position. It’s all about the tongue and anticipation. Don’t dive in as if going for the target. Take a little bit of a journey, working your way down her body as you kiss and nibble from nipples to belly button to the Garden of Eden.

Don’t forget the pleasure of a great hand job: Remember when you started with sexual instruction in school. It most likely consisted of some kissing with tongue, and some groping. And it was wonderful. There is nothing adolescent about bringing back a great hand job with your adult online dating partner. This adds to the anticipation. Anticipation is the greatest ingredient for erotic, hot, steamy sex. There is just something naughty and nice about a hand down your pants.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the “Do Not Disturb” sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com