Now if you want a successful ‘friends with benefits’ experience, especially with one woman, best to treat her with respect if you want it to continue. Just because you both don’t want a serious relationship doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be treated like a princess in private. That’s the fun of regular adult fun you can avoid the inevitable relationship low points like taking each other for granted, whilst keeping it sexy and mesmerising. To be honest, none of us are perfect in the bedroom but something’s are just unforgiveable.
Here is a quick guide to the worst crimes:
1 # Giving and receiving
If you ask for it, you should give it – especially when it comes to oral sex.
Men avoid giving it because they’re really not sure how to do it, but practice makes perfect!!! If you want her to give it then it is only good manners to give it back.
2 # Talking about sex with your ex
Discussing in anyway whatsoever what sex was like with previous partners is a big faux pas. Even if a small part of her is curious to hear about your past sex life, even if it’s bad, no woman likes to be compared in the bedroom.
3 # Keeping things fresh
We all have our favourite positions but how will you ever find what she likes if you don’t experiment? If you’re always enjoying things the same way then ask her what she enjoys. You never know you might enjoy it too, especially if it’s turning her on!
4 # Better out than in
Don’t ruin the moment with unwanted bodily functions in bed.
Lots of men think it’s funny when they let rip in the bedroom, almost seeing it as a mark of there virility. Some women might have a giggle but most don’t want to be treated like one of the lads.
5 # Filthy sex talk
Adult fun does not mean you have to be a sex obsessed nymphomaniac. There is a difference between talking dirty and being filthy. Most ladies like a little bit of sex-chat, a bit of smutty talking at the point of climax. But chances are shouting out filthy words and calling her rude names, you’re more likely to turn her off then on.
6 # Sleeping on the job
Yawning, rolling over and snoring once you’re satisfied is the best way to guarantee her not coming back. How would you like it? Remember keep things exciting and sensual. No-one wants to watch someone else sleep!
7 # Going too fast
Friends with benefits fun is all about the time together sharing sensual fun times, so don’t rush them. It shouldn’t be a chore because if it is then just find a new partner. Take it slow and savour it. This will make you a bedroom winner rather than a sexual sinner.
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