What do you do when you want sex and you want it now? There are times – about twice a week, as a matter of fact – when I have to have it, and I don’t mean tomorrow.
At this point in my life, I know myself and my body pretty well. After a couple of days without doing the deed, I start to get testy, and tend to snap at strangers when I might have flirted the day before, just for the fun of it. I do like to tease, but that’s another story. When I get that grumpy, itchy feeling, I know it’s time for a little hot sex. So how do I get what I need?
Well, there’s always the self-satisfying route. Sometimes there’s just no other way to go than getting out the vibrator (of course, I have a selection to choose from, so it takes some time to pick the right helper) and getting myself off. When I have to do this, I usually make a hot bath, light some candles to get myself in the mood, and do it slow and easy. The problem is, there’s nothing like the real, hot thing from a lover who knows what I want.
That’s when I used to make my way to the clubs – a couple of favorite spots were usually enough to find what I needed – and look over the competition. And believe me, there was competition for me – I am a sexy thing, if I do say so myself. So I generally had my pick of randy men to choose from. But times have changed, and the scene out there is not like it used to be. Oh, the memories that come back to me!
Anyway, I’ve found that when I really need hot, satisfying sex, I can go to my online dating service and find a willing, perfectly matched partner for the evening. They make it so easy to get sex when I need it, I don’t even have to use my helper as much as I used to do.
Just when you thought you had the female orgasm all figured out, you discover that there is more than one way to give her pleasure. Maybe it’s because women have to bear the burden of childbirth that they are given more than one way to have an orgasm, with more than one point of pleasure to enjoy it. Most people are familiar with a clitoral orgasm, and the mystery of the elusive G-spot has remained that…a mystery. Now, finally, there is some better information on G-spot stimulation…
Since the original research in 1940 and the bestselling book The G-spot there have been various definitions of what it is, where it is located, and if, in fact every woman has a G-spot. Newer research is a little bit clearer. While everyone does have this sexual hot spot, the amount of pleasure that a woman gets from stimulating this area of her body varies. This explains why some women love their G-spot, and others prefer an orgasm of the clitoris.
Casual sex shouldn’t mean sloppy sex. To get the most out of a casual dating relationship you still need to bring your “A” game to the playing field.
After another sex scandal involving a senior member of the Catholic Church, questions are again being asked about celibacy. Is it realistic for someone to permanently go without sex? Celibacy does not mean abstinence. To the purists, celibacy – derived from the Latin for unmarried – means a permanent state of being without sex. Abstinence can be temporary. And it’s possible to be abstinent in a relationship. “True” celibacy means a life without both sex and a spouse or partner. Of course, there are many who give it a looser definition – merely indicating some sort of commitment to be
When men are searching for women who are randy, they are often quite certain what they are looking for. Casual sex with no obligation or commitment might seem like the utopia of sexual encounters. No expectations and no strings the next day allows you to have fun and release that sexual energy without playing any mental games. Meeting randier women is sort of like an invisible contract being signed. The agreement would say things such as “we agree to have sex, no guilt to call each other tomorrow, we agree to physical connection only and thank you for your time.”